Wednesday 9 April 2008

Comment 2

Post title: Introduction to Being Bad

Blog title: Kimberley

Posted by: Kimberley


I believe I am the guy sitting next to you at the lecture and I have to say that I was very shocked by you as well. Imagine that ha? As I told you during the lecture and as you saw by your self, the world we live in it is not like you so innocently imagined it to be. The truth is that, if you take for example all living beings in the animal kingdom except for a couple, there isn’t a species that is monogamist. In fact, is because they mess around they have gain immunity to viruses; they involved and can survive and evolved like us through the centuries (this is scientifically proven by the way). Do you imagine what would happen if our few ancestors after the Ice Age will think, “Oh don’t have sex with different people because it’s immoral, cruel and insensitive…”? More likely we wouldn’t be here arguing. In contrast, I feel that sex is a good thing and by going in and out through erotic relationships and other such experiences, we eventually gain that experience, knowledge and awareness we need when the right person comes along; we are ready to identify, distinguish and embraced him/her into our very souls. You see, even I gave the impression that I am a bad person and most likely I am, I am also very romantic and sensitive. I believe that, somewhere out there, there is a better half for all of us but until we find it, unfortunately we will mistreat and be mistreated in some way.

1 comment:

Kimberley said...

I was looking through other students blogs and saw my name haha.
Thank you for commenting on one of my posts.
I think you misunderstood what i was trying to get across. I have no problem with people sleeping with whomever they choose, and yes sex is essential for the human race to continue.
The only issue i have is with people who commit to one person and betray them with another.
Its funny that you feel the need to say 'sex is a good thing' and that erotic experiences that we gain through sex with various people, somehow make us better for the people we end up with. It really annoys me when faithful people are made out to be less sexual/ sexually adventurous than those who sleep around regardless of commitments to other people. Just because I am only sexual within a committed relationship does not mean i am any less experienced than somebody as above. I am the most sexual person i know, and having been to the infamous Torture Garden, there isnt alot i havnt seen. I'm very in touch with my sensuality, sexuality and feminimity.
If in class you had said you had slept with 100 women, i wouldnt have thought alot of it. It was only that you had been with another whilst somebody else thought you were being faithful to them that caused the reaction you got.
And by the way, I have no problem with animals sleeping around! but if daddy fox is telling mummy fox, " i love you, its just me and you" and then getting it on with some other fox, then i may have to reconsider :-)